tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52080972564397072252024-03-12T20:28:57.335-07:00Mom ThoughtsA place to share my thoughts and ideas about parenting, homeschooling, crafting, baking and more...Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.comBlogger104125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-17321494458639468642013-06-16T23:05:00.000-07:002013-06-16T23:05:22.404-07:00Author Spotlight: Bonny Becker<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
We love to read at our house. Library visits happen about once a week to replenish our supply of books. I wish I'd kept better records on our favorite stories. Some have been forgotten, but others we've actually purchased because we loved them so much. </div>
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Bonny Becker's books <i>A Visitor for Bear</i> and <i>Bedtime for Bear</i> are two beloved favorites at our house.</div>
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I think a good children's book needs to have: rich vocabulary, engaging pictures, and an interesting story. If I don't like the illustrations, forget it! I don't even bother with the book. Kady MacDonald Denton does a fabulous job of portraying the stories. Besides great illustrations, the vocabulary is fantastic in these books, and my kids use the words correctly in daily life. (Recently my 3 year old used the word <i>mournful</i>.) The teacher in me loves that! The stories are hilarious, which makes for an enjoyable read aloud.<br />
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Plus we've had all kinds of fun having tea parties and impromptu dramas to recreate these books. One day we went out to eat at a restaurant that had a working fireplace. My son flopped down in front of the "crackling fire" to warm his toes...just like Bear and Mouse did in <i>A Visitor for Bear</i>. I was a bit humiliated as he made quite a fuss about the crackling fire, but he was absolutely delighted. </div>
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(All of the photos were taken in 2012... I've been meaning to write about these books for a long time!)</div>
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I need to mention that there are two more books in the series about Bear and Mouse (small and gray and bright-eyed), but review them before you share them with your kids. I waited for quite a while on <i>The Sniffles for Bear</i> as it mentions writing a will. (Bear, over-dramatic about most things, has a cold and thinks that maybe he's going to die.) <i>A Birthday for Bear</i>, was written to be an "easy reader", so the vocabulary was simplified for beginning readers to be able to read it on their own. It lacks the charm of the other books, and honestly I think Bear is so rude that I didn't want my kids to hear the story. They've since published a full-sized version of the birthday book, but I don't know if they've enriched the text or kept it simple. Either way, preview it first to see whether you feel the message is appropriate for your little ones.</div>
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The kids and their cousin listening in as Gram reads <i>AVisitor for Bear</i></div>
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<br />Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-40605549061968872652013-05-06T17:19:00.001-07:002013-05-06T17:19:49.294-07:00Series for Young Readers: TrucktownMy son (age 5 1/2) is sometimes a reluctant reader. He is always eager to have stories read to him, but he's not always keen to read books on his own. So, I'm always looking for books that are interesting to him and easy enough that he can read them without help. If he does engage and read an easy book, it builds his confidence and he's more apt to try it again. <br />
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One series he really enjoys is called <i>Jon Scieszka's Trucktown</i>. The illustrations are funny and full of personality, and the characters are wacky and always in motion. The text is very simple, but the stories are still interesting. This is rare to find all of these qualities in an easy reader. Most boys will really enjoy them. My three year old daughter also finds them entertaining, probably because some of the vehicles are girls and the pictures are very colorful. <br />
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We just finished reading <i>Truckery Rhymes</i> together. It is a hilarious re-write of common nursery rhymes. For example, instead of "Pop Goes the Weasel", it says..."Pop! Blows the Diesel". This book was more complicated than the other Trucktown stories, so I read it to the kids. I think your family might find it entertaining as well.<br />
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Do you have any suggestions of fun books that are great for beginning readers? Please share your suggestions in the comments. <br />
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Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-71249380486957572782013-04-19T18:42:00.000-07:002013-04-19T18:42:23.713-07:00Our Reading Curriculum for 2012-2013
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One of the biggest tasks of homeschooling is choosing what curriculum or learning plan to use. It is overwhelming to choose as there are so many options available. Talking to other families who homeschool and doing a lot of research on-line has been invaluable in the decision making process. Although I've been "homeschooling" our kids from the moment they were adopted, this school year was the first official year for us as our son is now five. I wanted to share with you what we've done this year for reading. (Keep in mind that he's doing 1st grade reading this year.) I apologize for how long this is, but hopefully it will be a help to you! </div>
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There are tons of products out there for teaching a
step-by-step approach to phonics.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In
2011, I purchased <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Hooked on Phonics
(pre-K thru 2<sup>nd</sup> grade pack)</i> to teach my son how to read.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was a season in my life where I was
constantly tired with one child who was energetic all day and another (newly
adopted) who would not sleep at night.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I had to have a reading curriculum that would require little or no prep
from me, and be engaging enough to interest my high octane four year old.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>H.O.P. is definitely all of that, and
it doesn’t require any handwriting in the early books.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s pricey, but a lot cheaper than
preschool!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now that I’m not
exhausted all the time, I would not choose Hooked on Phonics as my go-to
reading curriculum. Since we have it, I’m using the
preschool activities with our daughter.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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suit us better.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We do use H.O.P.
as a supplemental to get more practice in areas (like consonant blends)
that challenge him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We skip the
companion videos completely as they seemed to decrease my son’s ability to
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What we really love for learning phonics…<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_1_11?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=explode+the+code+series&sprefix=Explode+the%2Cstripbooks%2C276" target="_blank">Explode the Code</a></i> workbooks.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, there’s writing, but we modify
whenever possible to keep the frustration level down.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>These workbooks are simple with silly illustrations and
goofy sentences.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> T</span>hey teach phonics in a step-by-step sequence with lots of
opportunity for practice, and the kids like them because they’re funny. There
is a great three workbook series for pre-readers that I just purchased called <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_10?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=get+ready+for+the+code&sprefix=Get+ready+%2Cstripbooks%2C294&rh=n%3A283155%2Ck%3Aget+ready+for+the+code" target="_blank">Get Ready for the Code</a></i>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My daughter (age 3) and I are really
enjoying book A, and it’s perfect for her ability level.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My son (age 5 ½ ) is currently working
on Explode the Code book 3.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We started using Explode the Code when H.O.P. got too challenging (it moves along quickly) for my
son, and he began to strongly resist learning to read.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We took a break from the hard stuff and
had fun going slowly through the blends in Explode the Code book 2.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Once we got through that book, he was
back on track with reading and eager to read out loud with me again.</div>
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Rather than go right back to H.O.P. where we’d left off, I
decided to start something fresh so we could distance ourselves from the frustration
that had caused my son to plateau before Explode the Code.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Thanks to a good friend who
homeschools, we decided to try the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><a href="http://www.exodusbooks.com/category.aspx?id=5339" target="_blank">Pathway Reading Series</a></i>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are 13
books in the series that range from first to eighth grade.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The first book is called <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">First Steps</i>, and is considered a
beginning of the year first grade book.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> It's hard to find these books, but <a href="http://www.exodusbooks.com/" target="_blank">Exodus Books</a> always has them in stock as so many homeschool families love them. They are very also very reasonably priced at $6.00 for a hard-bound book, and $2.50 for the workbooks.</span></div>
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We all love this series of books!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My son and I read the stories aloud together and my daughter
eagerly listens in.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I love the
books because they are similar to what I had when I learned to read back in 1981.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I also chose these books because they teach values through the stories like sharing, obedience, kindness, and being helpful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The characters are fascinating to my
kids, and the stories engage their interest.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The books have simple black and white drawings.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>These books were created for the Amish, so there are no pictures of people in them. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I like this because
my kids are free to invent their own images of what the characters might look
like.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> They do enjoy the black and white illustrations of animals and farm life.</span></div>
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There are also workbooks that go along with each book.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The workbooks are very basic in
appearance, but that’s fine with
me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I pick and chose which pages
to do, focusing on activities that test comprehension, critical thinking, and
grammar.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We skip a lot of busy
work, and often I will write in the answers as the lines are too tiny for my
son’s level of handwriting.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There
are auditory tests where he has to circle the word I say, or chose the picture
that matches the scenario I read about.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I especially like to do these pages since his answers give me a better
understanding of his listening and comprehension skills.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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To round out our reading curriculum, we read aloud twice
daily to both of our kids.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We
often visit the library to have fresh stories to enjoy together.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I try to get books to engage each of my
children individually and some books that they both will like.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We also get books with a CD so they can
sit together and listen to a story being read to them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Most nights, my husband has been
reading a novel to the family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>He’s read: <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Hobbit</i>, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Wind in the Willows</i>, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Little House in the Big Woods</i>, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Stuart Little</i>, and the entire series
about Henry Huggins by Beverly Cleary.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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inappropriate for little ears to hear. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ve been impressed with the kids’ ability to listen to a
chapter and actually comprehend some or most of it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They really enjoy this family time and often beg for another
chapter.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Love it!</div>
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A great resource to inspire reading together is a book
called <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><a href="http://www.veritaspress.com/prodinfo.asp?number=000705" target="_blank">First Favorites</a></i> by Veritas
Press.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It recommends 13 different
fairly well-known children’s books, some classic and some more modern.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After reading the book aloud, there are
activity pages to do together.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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mentioned.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>However, it was still
fun for us to go beyond the story and do something fun together.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For example, after reading the story <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Blueberries for Sal</i>, we learned about
how bears hibernate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We colored
pictures of bears and then tucked the pictures away in closets so they could
hibernate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When spring arrived, we
took our pictures out and celebrated that the bears woke up.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I also bought some blueberries and we
made a blueberry pie!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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In a 2012 post, <a href="http://amysmomthoughts.blogspot.com/2012/01/next-steps-towards-learning-to-read.html" target="_blank">The Next Steps Toward Learning to Read</a>, I mentioned some great books to check out for beginning readers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>These books are very easy so your just
learning to read child can delight in reading a story to you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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<a href="http://www.myfitnesspal.com/" target="_blank">MyFitnessPal</a> works. If you are wanting to lose weight, it <i>really </i>works! Check out my <a href="http://www.mpmacdougall.com/2013/04/07/ninety-day-wonder/" target="_blank">husband's blog</a> to read about his weight loss journey. He has lost 35 lbs. in 100 days!! I am so proud of him and how he has inspired many others to join him. My husband's example and using this new app are definitely helping me keep myself in check. In fact, I've even lost a pound in the 15 days I've been tracking my calories. I'm happy with that since I'm eating enough to maintain my weight rather than trying to lose more. <br />
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M.F.P. is a free app, and easy to use. Of course, it takes time (and can be a hassle) to track down labels and barcodes to find out how many calories are in your meals. But the benefit is you start to develop healthy eating habits. One of the most important habits is portion control. We've learned to budget our calories. We can eat whatever we want, but since we only get 1400 or 1500 calories a day we don't want to blow 1/3 of them on a cinnamon roll! We have found that we eat more fruits and veggies and fewer processed foods since they are so high in calories. At the end of the day, if we still have calories left we enjoy a treat. Actually, I think we both aim to have leftover calories so we can have a cookie once the kids are asleep. :-)<br />
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Here's one other bit of good news, you don't have to exercise! If you do exercise, MyFitnessPal will give you more calories to eat on that given day. So, if you really want that piece of pie you might go for a walk or run up the stairs for ten minutes. My extended family is also using MFP. My sister and mom were wanting to have dessert the other night but had both run low on calories. So, they went for a jog around the neighborhood! We all had a good laugh about that.<br />
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Well, what about you? Are you tired of feeling like you are losing the daily battle to control your food cravings? Try using MyFitnessPal, and get a friend or spouse to join you. I promise that if you stick to the calories suggested you will see positive results! Let me know how it goes. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">October 2012, this picture really motivated my husband to make <br />some dietary changes. </span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">April 2013, after three months of using MyfitnessPal, my husband is 35lbs lighter!<br />This is the thinnest he's been in the 13 years we've been married.</span></td></tr>
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<br />Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-26313314742857689292013-04-13T08:56:00.001-07:002013-04-13T08:56:04.471-07:00A Typical Homeschool Morning<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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When we started on the adventure of teaching our kids at
home, I had no idea what a normal day should look like.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Perhaps you are also wondering how to
get started.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Let me share with you
some of the details of this morning so you can get a glimpse into our
routine.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> (My son is five and my daughter is three.)</span><br />
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We started off at 10:00 am with handwriting pages that I’d
printed out from <a href="http://www.starfall.com/n/N-info/abcprint.htm?n=downloadcenter" target="_blank">Starfall.com</a>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yesterday, I noticed that my son was not writing his e’s or u’s properly, so I printed out the worksheets for
extra practice.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some of the pages
were too simple for him, so I gave them to my daughter.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She likes to be included, and my son is an extrovert and
prefers to have someone else working with him, so they were both happy. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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While my son worked independently, I sat on the floor next
to my daughter and we counted eggs on her letter e worksheet.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I helped her write the numbers in the
box.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then we colored eggs that had capital E and
lower case e on them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We also had time to
do the letter u page.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Once we finished that,</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I gave Marisa markers and
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That gave me time to help Kieran think of words that started
with E, and write out the word egg.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We focused on staying in the lines and writing as neatly as
possible.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I could tell he was getting
frustrated after one page of handwriting, so I gave him the option to move on to math.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was happy to skip the letter u
worksheet.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I decided we could
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I gave my son a brief explanation of the two math pages and
hopped back to my daughter.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She
was done coloring, so we moved on to reading.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I used a flip chart to review the –at words she’s been
learning to read. The few words she needed to sound out, my son chimed in and
sounded out with her.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(He gets
distracted easily, so I had to remind him to move away from us and get his math
done.)<br />
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Since Marisa got through the flip chart so easily, I pulled
out her <a href="https://hookedonphonics.com/Product/hop-ltr-pre-k-level-1/" target="_blank">Hooked on Phonics</a> preschool book and we hunted for pictures that
started with the letter L.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>By the
end of that page, she was getting antsy to do something else.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I let her choose some stickers for her
good work, and then she was off to play.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>She plays quietly and independently- which is a huge blessing- so now I
was able to give Kieran my undivided attention.</div>
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I must add that throughout the time I was helping Marisa,
Kieran was interrupting to ask for help, or just to show off his work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is a brilliant boy, but often needs
reassurance.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is progressing at being able to finish a whole page, but when we first started
kindergarten, he was not able to do three problems on his own.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This may be typical for some kids.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Thankfully, they all mature eventually
and get past needing someone to hold their hand all the time.</div>
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Back to math…my son is doing <a href="https://www.aophomeschooling.com/product/jks021-4896" target="_blank">Horizons math</a> book 1.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is actually quite easy for him, but
because of his struggle with handwriting we are moving through it at a slower pace.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Today he was enthusiastic about the pages and wanted to do
two extra pages.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Great!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This is the beauty of homeschool.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We go at the pace of each child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Too hard, slow down.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Too easy, move ahead.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not working, find something else that
does.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
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So, we breezed through math and moved on to <a href="http://www.explodethecode.com/" target="_blank">Explode the Code</a>
book 3. I modified the assignment to focus on just the phonics and skip the
writing portion.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Asking him to do
more handwriting at this point in the day would have pushed us both over the
edge! My son did well, but struggled with reading <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">plate</i> vs. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">plane</i>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This was a clue to me that he’s not
really looking at the whole word, but just enough of it to make a guess.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I made a note in his book to practice
more words like these next time. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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After Explode the Code, we moved on to our final assignment:
short and long vowel words.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have
a list of 18 short vowel words on a page. I put a plastic cover over the sheet
so we can write on it with a Vis a Vis marker, erase, and use it again later.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I had him read the word <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">can</i>, then I wrote an e behind it to make
<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">cane</i>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When we got to <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">man</i>/<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">mane</i>
it prompted an interesting discussion on the definitions of <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">mane</i>, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Maine</i>, and <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">main</i>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Once we were done, I made a quick note
of the words that were difficult for Kieran so we can practice those next
time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
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By 11:00 my son’s attention span was spent.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was eager to run to the window and watch
his daddy mow the lawn.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>While the
kids watched my husband, I made brief notes on my iPad for our next class based
on the progress and struggles we had today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It took me about five minutes to complete.</div>
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That’s a fairly typical homeschool day. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Although the official learning time has
ended, we are never really done teaching.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>All day we will have teachable moments where we are imparting something
to them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But that’s a post for
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First, I discovered that I was relying on sugar to help me feel better. When I felt stress, exhaustion, self-pity, or frustration I would turn to sweets to alleviate the negative emotions. Going through 30 days without my "sugar fix" definitely made me more understanding toward people who struggle with other types of addictions. <br />
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Second, I learned that God wanted me to turn to Him - not sugar - for emotional support. Psalm 34:8 says, "Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the one who trusts in Him." There is a sweetness to God's presence, and as I turned to Him in my frazzled moments I was refreshed. This is still a work in progress. It's easy to reach for food to comfort, but turning to God takes discipline and practice. <br />
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There are three books I am reading that have been a great source of inspiration on this topic:<br />
-<a href="http://lysaterkeurst.com/made-to-crave/" target="_blank">Made to Crave: Satisfying Your Deepest Desire with God, Not Food</a> by Lysa TerKeurst<br />
-<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Practice-Presence-God-Brother-Lawrence/dp/0800785991/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1365226475&sr=1-1&keywords=the+practice+of+the+presence+of+god" target="_blank">The Practice of the Presence of God </a>by Brother Lawrence<br />
-<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Calling-Enjoying-Peace-Presence/dp/1591451884/ref=la_B001K8ABK0_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1365226428&sr=1-1" target="_blank">Jesus Calling: Enjoying Peace in His Presence</a> by Sarah Young<br />
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Third, I realized I don't really need sugar. Remember how I loved chai tea? I broke my sugar fast on Easter by having a chai. I was surprised to discover that it tasted like maple syrup mixed with hot water. Crazy, that is not how I remember it tasting thirty days ago! I've had a few chai teas since then, but I don't really care for it anymore. Chocolate, on the other hand, is still delicious!<br />
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What's next? I'm starting to plan ahead each day rather than waiting for hunger to strike and then deciding what I'll eat. For the next thirty days, I've also decided to use <a href="http://www.myfitnesspal.com/" target="_blank">My Fitness Pal</a>. It helps me count calories so I don't fall back into bad eating habits. (I'll post more about My Fitness Pal in the future as it deserves a post of its own.) <br />
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Although my challenge has ended, it is just the beginning of a journey to eat better and live better. It's not just eating habits that I need to change, but also heart habits. Every day I'm working at changing my perspective on things. When I need help, I'm retraining myself to ask God to help me instead of seeking a momentary fix that doesn't really fix anything. <br />
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<br />Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-14910376106209915662013-03-22T21:15:00.001-07:002013-03-22T21:17:05.348-07:00No Sugar: Day 20This challenge to avoid sugar for a month has been so educational. After about two weeks of fasting sugar, I noticed that not eating sweet things wasn't hard anymore. I didn't crave it insanely, and fruit seemed to satisfy my desire for something sweet. I still wanted sweet things, but I was content without them.<br />
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Then I invited a group of ladies over to my house for coffee. <br />
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One gal brought muffins to share. I thought it would be rude to not eat one, and I didn't wish to offend her. So, I ate half of a muffin. It had chocolate chips in it, and I tried to savor every bite. It was a store bought muffin and wasn't bad, but it wasn't as amazing as I expected it to be. Even though it wasn't fantastic, the other half of that muffin was so tempting to me! I looked at it and longed to eat it for a day. Finally I gave it to my kids so I wouldn't eat it. <br />
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After eating that half of a chocolate chip muffin, I felt like I was starting over on day one of my sugar fast. <br />
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<i>I had terrible sugar cravings for about three days! </i> My mind was screaming at me, "Give me sugar!!"<br />
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I was so surprised at how my body reacted to just that little treat. Thankfully, the feelings of insane craving have subsided and I'm once again content with my sugarless diet.<br />
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One thing that has helped me immensely is to find replacements for the foods I used to love. I've purchased all kinds of tea to replace my beloved Chai. When stress strikes, I get a cup of tea. When I'm craving a pastry type of sweet, I eat gluten free rice Chex. When I just want sweets, I have some kind of fruit. When I make peanut butter and honey sandwiches for my kids, I have a pb and banana sandwich. It's not bad! I've tried applesauce on my peanut butter sandwich too. That wasn't so great. By far, my favorite treat is home made fruit smoothies. <br />
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As I'm nearing the end of my fast, I'm wondering what I should do now about sugar. I don't want to avoid it for the rest of my life. But I also don't want to be a slave to it. I definitely don't want to go back to the sluggish, tired, pants feeling-too-tight living that I had before this challenge. I guess these thoughts will be explored further on my day 30 post. Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-69157158731655775152013-03-10T22:36:00.001-07:002013-03-10T22:36:08.615-07:00No Sugar Update: Day 10It's been ten days without sugar. The first week was REALLY tough; I wanted to quit every day!<br />
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I was so cranky and feeling so sorry for myself whenever I couldn't have a treat. My poor family had to put up with me being a grouch for a while. Around day four, my husband joked about pinning me down and pouring some sugar down my throat! <br />
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After a week went by, it seemed like I turned a corner and avoiding sugar has been easier since then. I'm not craving it as much or as intensely. I miss treats, and I still want something sweet four or five times a day. But, I'm not feeling irritable or cranky anymore. <br />
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It has been an eye-opener to find out how my body and my mind has been so reliant on sugar. For example, I will eat dinner and feel full but my brain will send out signals that I'm still "hungry" because my body is craving something sweet. I also still find myself yearning for chai or chocolate when things get stressful. <br />
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However, there have been benefits too, and that has kept me going. <br />
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One change I didn't expect is that I'm less tired. Before the challenge, I'd eat a meal and then feel like taking a nap about twenty minutes later. Not anymore. <br />
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Also, food has more flavor since I quit eating sugar. Some processed foods that I enjoyed before, like chicken nuggets, don't taste good to me now. I can detect the additives that aren't natural. It's really weird. Other foods that were just o.k. before are now delicious! Fruit is so much sweeter than I'd ever realized. Tonight I made a fruit smoothie and added unsweetened chocolate. Wow! What a treat that was. (The kids didn't think so though.)<br />
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Another awesome result is that my too-tight pants aren't so tight anymore. I have known for a while that I needed to make some changes to my eating habits because all my jeans were getting uncomfortable. But, I had been ignoring the problem and hoping it would go away without any effort on my part. HA!! Other days, I'd feel like there was no solution to my pants shrinking and I'd just have to live with my body expanding. <br />
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So, here's the crazy thing, in just three days of no sugar I could tell a difference. I tried on my too small pants and found out they were wearable! I now have three pairs of pants that I can wear again. (They were actually on their way to the "donate" pile because I was giving up on ever fitting into them again.)<br />
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Seeing physical improvement has been the biggest motivator to keep going with my <a href="http://amysmomthoughts.blogspot.com/2013/03/30-days-without-sugar.html" target="_blank">No Sugar for 30 Days</a> challenge. I am so happy to be taking charge of myself. (Apathy was a miserable place to be!) Although self-discipline is not fun, it sure has it's rewards when you keep going for a while. <br />
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I'll be checking in again on Day 20. <br />
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I'd love to hear from you. What changes are you making in your life? <br />
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Then I saw the irony of it, how could I continue to ask for help with my children's disobedience without addressing my own? Well, <i>what better way to teach obedience than to model it</i>? <br />
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Yesterday I decided to say good-bye to sugar for thirty days.<br />
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Yesterday was a rough day! My mind kept screaming..."Give me something sweet to eat!!"<br />
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Today hasn't been easy (or pretty) either.<br />
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I'm realizing that sweet foods and drinks are my go-to snacks when I'm feeling stressed, tired, or sorry for myself. First thing in the morning, and during the tired times in the afternoon, I <i>love </i>to drink Oregon Chai tea. If the kids are being unusually loud, rowdy, or naughty... I surreptitiously gobble a Dove chocolate. Late at night I often have cold cereal before bed. Problem is, all our cold cereal options are high in sugar too. Telling myself no to these treats is a bummer!<br />
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However, I know that eliminating sugary foods is good for me. If nothing else, it's helping me to eat better. Oh, and food already tastes better too. Crazy, but the natural flavors are more obvious when you're avoiding sweets. Another bonus is that I do feel better about myself. It feels good to do something healthy and a bit radical. <br />
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I wonder what other benefits there will be from this 30 day sugar fast? I think God has some things to teach me. Things that have nothing to do with food, sugar, or eating per se. I'm praying that He'll do a good work in me, and help me to not have a bad attitude about what I'm giving up for a while. I'll be blogging now and then to share the journey and the lessons that go with it. <br />
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What changes are you making in your life? Is there something you've felt challenged to do, but haven't started yet? Maybe today is your day to start. Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-44964555211477642442013-02-25T12:21:00.000-08:002013-02-25T12:22:31.982-08:00Color Study: Yellow<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Being in a drab environment is depressing to me. The days without sun here have been too many this winter. Once again, I find myself looking for beauty to override the gloom outside. Today I've posted random photos that I've taken over the years... the only thing they have in common is that they focus on the color yellow found in nature. </div>
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For some reason, yellow makes me think of heaven. I guess because God is described as being bright like the sun. It's no surprise to me that when the sun shines warmly on my face on a cool day, I feel like God is sending me His love. As I write this, the gray outside is lifting and a bit of glorious blue sky is being unveiled. Time to wrap this up and go outside in search of some sunlight to warm my face. </div>
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I pray about all kinds of things. Once I prayed that God would help me to take beautiful pictures while on our coastal vacation. This is the result of my prayers. Awesome!! <br />
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Fall leaves are an obvious place to look for yellow. I never tire of the visual variety that fall has to offer.<br />
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One day, my husband sliced the tops off of some bell peppers. The patterns we found inside were intriguing. I had to photograph them. I love how God hides beauty in unexpected places for us to find.<br />
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Winter is such a bleak time of year. The sky has been gray for days here. The landscape seems drab and gray too. I found myself craving color yesterday, and all the gray outside was driving me crazy! So I started looking through our photos from 2012. I was intrigued to discover the variety of shots I took that focused on one or two colors. For fun, I thought I'd share some of my favorites with you. I'll start with the color red.</div>
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Last year I got my craft mojo on and decided to make little Valentine cards for my kids to send to their friends. I wanted to post the photos last year, but I didn't want to reveal the surprise before they received the cards in the mail. So, here are the pictures now...perhaps they will inspire someone to make homemade cards this February. I used little treat cups from Stampin' Up! The pink tag at the top pulls out so the M&Ms can be released through a little circle inside the card. Some clever person came up with the idea, not me. You can finds TONS of card making inspiration and clever ideas like this one on <a href="http://www.splitcoaststampers.com/gallery/">http://www.splitcoaststampers.com/gallery/</a> That's my go to source for card ideas, but Pinterest is great too. Happy crafting!</div>
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<br />Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-79709604857585351042012-12-05T20:37:00.002-08:002012-12-05T20:37:27.543-08:00Kindergarten Homeschool: HandwritingI've been wanting to share about our homeschooling curriculum, but it's hard to find time to post these days! Today I'll focus on our handwriting workbook. A big part of kindergarten is learning to print. We are really enjoying <a href="http://www.areasonfor.com/article.php?id=19" target="_blank">A Reason for Handwriting</a>. The pages are in color. Each one features an animal to color on one side, and lots of room to practice the letters on the opposite side. The lines are spaced well so a beginning writer doesn't have to write tiny letters. Also, they introduce letters according to how they're written rather than alphabetically. That way the same motions are being practiced for a while before learning something completely different. One other thing I like is that the pages can be torn out so he doesn't have to battle keeping the book open while he's trying to write. My son always has a positive response when we pull out the handwriting book. <br />
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Next year, the 1st grade book will introduce writing out scripture verses. Once the child has written out a verse, he or she can send it to someone as a way to share God's Word and also show off their best handwriting. I would highly recommend this series of workbooks (K-6th) for non-homeschooling families as well. It could be something to do at home for more practice, or over the summer to keep their skills sharp. Today I chatted with a mom whose kids are in public school. Her daughters' school is no longer teaching cursive, so she's planning to get this series and teach her girls cursive at home. Love it! I think cursive is still important and should be taught. What are your thoughts about that?<br />
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Long time since I've posted here...sorry! Things are going well, but it's busy home schooling the kids and keeping up with the daily stuff as well. I thought I'd share our latest project in case someone else might be inspired by it. I wanted to do some sort of art project for Thanksgiving with the kids that would focus on the reason for the holiday: gratitude. So, I pondered for a while and came up with the idea of a Thanksgiving Tree. It was easy and fun to do. We had a great time and actually didn't get extremely messy, which was good since we were not in paint clothes! While the kids were "napping" in their rooms, I painted trees onto the back side of wrapping paper. I used FolkArt paint from Wal-mart. It dries fast and washes off easily, plus it's only .97 cents per bottle. Once the trees were dry, I painted the kids' hands to make the leaves. We put twenty two "leaves" on each tree since Thanksgiving is on the 22nd this year. Each day, starting November 1st, we'll write one thing that they are thankful for on a leaf. Then, on Thanksgiving day, the kids will have a tree full of blessings that we can talk about while we enjoy our turkey dinner. Here are some pictures in case you want to make your own.</div>
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I painted the trees onto the back side of wrapping paper. Older kids could paint their own tree. If you want to make it into an art lesson, have them observe trees outside to see how the limbs look without the leaves.<br />
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Next I added a bit of grass at the base of the tree so it didn't look like it was floating on the page. I also added a title so we'd know whose tree belong to whom. Before we started painting our leaves, I asked the kids to look outside at the variety of leaves on the trees in our backyard. We named the different colors we saw so the kids would know why we were using the variety of colors I chose for this project.</div>
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Time to get messy! I folded the paper so the kids could reach the limbs of the trees without ripping up the paper by crawling on it. I opted to do one kid at a time, and just one hand painted at a time. Marisa wanted to try painting her own hand. I let her for a couple of leaves. She did amazingly well for not even three years old! (We did eleven leaves with the left hand then washed and took a break so those could dry.)<br />
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While Marisa's eleven leaves were drying, Kieran had a turn to do some leaves on his tree. I did most of the painting on his hand, but let him try a couple on his own. He was a bit more enthusiastic with the paint, but only got a bit on his jeans. It washed out no problem. Once his eleven leaves were done, then sister had a turn again to do the rest with her right hand. The key for these guys was to do one kid at a time, and only one hand at a time...making sure to escort them to the sink so we didn't paint the whole kitchen. :)<br />
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Here's Marisa with her finished project. (She <i>loves</i> her "Penny the Penguin" from <a href="http://amysmomthoughts.blogspot.com/2012/08/koala-brothers-dvds.html" target="_blank">Koala Brothers</a>.)</div>
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Here's Kieran with his Thanksgiving Tree. (Love that smile!)</div>
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Both trees are on the wall in the dining room where we do our home school lessons. We'll write one thing that we are thankful for on a leaf each day in November till Thanksgiving. Then while we eat our meal, we can review all the amazing things God has blessed us with this year.</div>
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Next it was time to let the kids photograph mom. Kieran decided to go artistic and slant the camera while he snapped the picture. I think it turned out well. :)<br />
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With a bit of trepidation, I let Marisa (the two year old!) hold my giant camera. She actually got a decent photo of Kieran and me. Everybody was all smiles after having a good time painting. There were tense moments, but overall it was just fun. I'm eager for November to arrive so we can start writing on our leaves. <br />
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Parenting is hard work, and not every day is all smiles and silliness like we had this afternoon. However, it's the moments like these that I blog about so I can remember and know that there are a lot of good times mixed in with the tough ones. Perhaps my blogs are a kind of Thanksgiving tree for me. How do you help your kids (and yourself) develop grateful hearts? I'd love to hear from you. <br />
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It's potty training time again. I'm finding that already having been through this with our son is making this time around a bit easier. (Just a bit, a tiny bit.) The reason being that I know <i>eventually</i> my daughter will be potty trained. However, my kids are just about as opposite as can be so M is not behaving at all like K did. I feel like I know nothing, and am not sure how to best help her! After all the drama we went through with our son and potty training- we were on again and off again until he was three and a half!- I wasn't eager to start training our daughter. But, she has a problem with holding her pee in <i>all day</i>. I've been concerned about bladder infections, etc... The doctor suggested that maybe our daughter is ready to potty train. Ha! Both of my kids love(d) diapers and were not willing participants to graduating to big kid pants. I will say, M is doing well overall. We've only been training for three days now. She's peed in the toilet twice, in her pants three times. Pooped in her pants three times, none in the toilet yet. Mostly, she pees in her night time diaper when she's asleep. We don't put the diaper on her until she's sleeping though. The girl just doesn't go often...which makes it easy on clean up, but she's not getting much practice. Today was a complete failure, no potty victories but I really don't care. Wish I'd been this easy going with our son! My new philosophy on potty training is: it's not so much about the kid as it is about the parents being willing to persevere. <br />
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Oh, I have to add a P.S....We are having great success with her sleeping through the night now! She's moved from the floor to her mattress. Somehow, she's learned how to sleep more calmly and doesn't thrash around and end up falling off her bed or crashing into the wall. Hallelujah! We are now getting some much needed rest.Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-1098996120378412662012-07-14T21:48:00.001-07:002012-07-14T21:49:05.124-07:00Recipe: Outrageous Cookie Bars<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I discovered a recipe on the back of my Nestle chocolate chip bag for <i>Outrageous Cookie Bars</i>. (We buy our chocolate chips at Costco in the jumbo bag... a ridiculously huge package of chocolate chip morsels!) The recipe claimed they were quick and easy, plus I had all the ingredients so I decided to give them a try. These bars need a better name...they are so scrumptious that I found myself tonight scraping the empty pan hoping to gather up a few crumbs with my spoon. (Yes, we devoured the entire batch of cookies in less than 24 hours!)<br />
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They only require a few ingredients, and are simple enough that the kids can help you create them. Want to sample them? Here's the recipe:<br />
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Absolutely delicious!!</div>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-18621492946782119122012-07-03T22:32:00.001-07:002012-07-14T21:52:28.691-07:00100 Ways to be Kind to Your ChildA quick post today...check out this great link for some fresh inspiration and ideas on how to show your kids that you love them: <a href="http://creativewithkids.com/100-ways-to-be-kind-to-your-child/">http://creativewithkids.com/100-ways-to-be-kind-to-your-child/</a><br />
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I tried #79 today and just sat and watched while my kids did silly little dances to their favorite song. (It was hilarious to see them try to boogie!) I found it refreshing to slow down and just observe them, and it also rekindled the wonder and awe of being blessed with these two little miracles. <br />
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My #100, be more patient and let them know it's ok to make mistakes. <br />
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<br />Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-82070245268854293432012-06-18T22:44:00.002-07:002012-06-18T22:52:55.550-07:00Sleep, or the Lack ThereofOur daughter is delightful, but she doesn't like to sleep. I think this might be normal for some kids. We don't know much about her first eleven months of life, but I often wonder if nights were a rough time for her. Maybe that's why she struggles now. Or perhaps she'd have the same issues with sleep if she had grown in my womb. Anyway, we've tried all kinds of things to help her sleep through the night...with the goal of all of us getting some much needed uninterrupted sleep. <br />
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Here's our most recent sleepless adventure...<br />
Last night our dear daughter woke me up at 3 am with a soaked diaper. I changed the diaper and escorted her back to bed. As she started to protest, I gently reminded her that she could play in her room if she wasn't tired, but I needed to sleep so she must stay in her room. She chose to play in the hallway outside our bedroom door and I guess she got bored, so she popped back into my room at 4 am. Lovely. That time she got a consequence and I calmly returned her to her bed. I was proud of her that she didn't melt down but accepted the circumstances. She finally went back to sleep in her room and slept till 8 am. At nap time today, she opted to skip the nap and played in her room instead. By dinner she was exhausted and took a brief nap while I got the meal prepped. I woke her- have to admit it was sort of fun to wake her since she woke me twice last night!!- so she could have dinner with us. She was an angry bear! But, finally she ate and we went through our normal night time routine after eating. Funny thing, while we snuggled and read books she repeatedly told me, "I'm not tired!" But all her body language shouted, "I'm exhausted!" My husband and I laughed and laughed. I figured at bedtime she'd drop off quickly. Nope, an hour later she was cruising the halls again- which she is not supposed to do. I reminded her that a consequence awaited her if she roamed around again. As I write this, all is quiet and our sleep fighter has finally given in to slumber. <br />
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Like I said, we've tried so many different "solutions" in the 18 months that our daughter has been home from China. Some things work for a while, but then we revisit the struggles all over again and new solutions have to be found. I've read the books, and I've dialogued with other adoptive moms from our travel group. Still, I'm reaching out again to see if there's an idea that we haven't tried. (Please share your thoughts in the comments section!!) Also, having her out of the crib is still quite new and presenting a whole new set of "adventures" for us to figure out.<br />
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Here's our list of trial and error attempts to help our girl rest well:<br />
-stick to a night time routine<br />
-night light and ocean sounds in room<br />
-no night light (now she has one again)<br />
-bottle before bed (when she was a baby)<br />
-no bottle before bed<br />
-rock her to sleep in desperation<br />
-investigated food allergies (none we know of)<br />
-bumper in the crib<br />
-no bumper in the crib<br />
-parent sleep on the floor in the room (when we are desperate)<br />
-change diaper around 10:30 or 11:00 pm<br />
-scripture lullabies playing in room<br />
-daughter sleeps in our bed (she thrashes around, chats, and nobody sleeps!)<br />
-switch from crib to toddler bed in her own room<br />
-switch from toddler bed to twin mattress on the floor<br />
-she prefers sleeping on the floor since she rolls off the mattress in her sleep<br />
-digital clock in her room so she knows what time it is (still learning her numbers)<br />
-sleeping on the floor in parents' bedroom...a solution when we are desperate<br />
-allowing her to play with stuffed animals in her room until she's tired<br />
-snuggle with her till she falls asleep, another desperate measure<br />
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The one thing that is working for me is to stay calm in the midst of loud crying in the middle of the night. I tend to get really ticked when I don't get good sleep, so this has not been easy for me. I know God is using this whole experience to smooth the rough places in me and make me more like Jesus. I also know that this is only a season. Eventually, our daughter is going to be able to sleep through the night regularly. Still, it can be really rough being in the midst of it. That's why I so appreciate conversations with other moms. We usually discover as we chat that our life experiences are strikingly similar at times. Sometimes one mom will have a brilliant idea that is so helpful. Other times it's just a balm to have somebody to talk to that can honestly say, "I know what you mean!" Thanks for listening to me babble on tonight!Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-21245514693664207662012-05-09T13:18:00.000-07:002012-05-09T13:36:09.914-07:00Scripture Lullabies<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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How do you create a peaceful atmosphere in your home? The quickest way I know of is to put on peaceful music. Our "go to" peaceful music is <a href="http://www.scripture-lullabies.com/" target="_blank">Scripture Lullabies</a>. We now own both volume one and two. They are <i>excellent</i>, and have blessed our family in many ways. When the kids are cranky or tired, when I'm stressed and trying to get a hot dinner ready for the family, when we are in the car and wishing we'd already reached our destination, when my daughter can't sleep...Scripture Lullabies has been a source of comfort and help to us. Many times, my son will even request to listen to it. (His favorite song is <i>Bless the Lord</i> from Vol. 1. He insists we all sing along to it :) I love that my kids are learning God's Words as they hear the music. It's beyond awesome to hear them quoting scripture! Plus, I find myself singing the songs in my head and being reminded of so many good things that God has to say. Anyway, enough said...check out their website, watch a video, listen to sample songs, and if you like what you hear then use the 20% off coupon code listed below. This would be a great Mother's Day gift to yourself or get one as a gift for an expecting mother. However the music is really for any age not just little ones. I know you will be blessed by it!<br />
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<a href="http://vimeo.com/33631561" target="_blank">http://vimeo.com/33631561</a>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-1085395778035223382012-04-26T22:00:00.000-07:002012-07-14T21:53:00.755-07:00Not on my "To Do" ListIt was a usual Tuesday morning. We needed groceries, I had my list, and my son asked to come along for the ride. He promised to ride in the cart, not complain, and be on his best behavior. I agreed to take him along. As soon as we got inside the store, he began to resist getting into the cart. Ok, time to employ the boundaries lessons I've been learning: "You can either ride in the cart, or you can go home." He chose to go home...but then changed his mind when he realized I was serious. "Fine, but remember you promised to not complain and be on your best behavior." I wheel to the first aisle on my list and my son started misbehaving! Ok, I put the item back on the shelf and wheeled for the exit. Once he realized I was seriously going to take him home, he begged me to let him stay. Alright, last try...we go back to the aisle and I pick up the same item off the shelf. He whines, "The store is BORING, I want to go home." Item goes back on the shelf, and we begin wheeling for the exit <i>again</i>. Thanks to the <a href="http://amysmomthoughts.blogspot.com/2012/03/boundaries-with-kids.html" target="_blank">Boundaries with Kids</a> book, I'm staying calm but this is all very annoying to me. My son is feeling rather triumphant that he is getting what he wants. That annoys me the most. As he climbs into the car he looks across the parking lot to neighboring store and comments that Costco is not boring. I mention casually, "It's too bad you decided to go home, you won't be able to go to Costco." Then everything falls apart once he realizes he might be missing out on something fun. The whole drive home, my son- four and a half years old- wailed loudly. He did not want to go home. I kept calm (on the outside) and eventually stopped responded to his cries to not head home as he wasn't listening to me at all. Thankfully, my husband was home so I was able to get his help in calming our son down and deciding on a proper consequence. I was ticked, by the way, that I'd lost about an hour and a half of my time because of my son's misbehavior. We decided he'd miss out on a movie and have to sit it out in his room while sister watched. I'd lost a lot of time so he'd have to miss out on something fun that mattered to him. Furthermore, I took his sister to the grocery store with me while my son stayed home with my husband for a discussion about being considerate and respectful. (Thank you, God, for blessing me with a great husband!) <br />
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I was in need of some sort of treat after that craziness, which was so out of the ordinary for my sweet but strong willed son. So, I took little Miss M on a date to the coffee shop. I let her pick out a donut for us to share. I got a chai, and she had a milk. She was wearing an adorable little dress, and her hair was in piggy tails with bows to match her dress. M was so darn cute, and was absolutely golden on our outing. (I wished I had my camera with me!) As we sat there enjoying our snack, I realized this was the first time I'd actually done something fun like this just her and me. It was a special time for both of us. After our treat, we went to the <i>boring</i> store and I got all my groceries without any fuss. I was thanking God for my daughter, and showering her with kisses and praise as we shopped. I arrived home refreshed and feeling merciful toward my son. He was in a much better frame of mind, apologized, and all was forgiven. He even got to go to Costco a few days later, and he was very well behaved! <br />
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Later on Tuesday, I had time to process all that had happened. I realized that my "to do" list for the morning had been to get groceries and make a healthy dinner for my family. Instead, the Lord was asking me to take the morning to teach my son how to be considerate of others and to respect and obey his parents. Parenting can be tough, especially when the misbehavior is on display for the general public at the grocery store. But, parenting is what I'm supposed to be doing in this season of my life. Every day it stretches me. I make a lot of mistakes. Often I feel overwhelmed by the responsibilities on my shoulders. However, God is teaching me that He will give me the grace and strength to be a mom. The main thing is, I need to ask for His help. I just finished reading <a href="http://amysmomthoughts.blogspot.com/2012/04/book-club-kisses-from-katie.html" target="_blank">Kisses from Katie</a> (by Katie Davis), and her story has been a great reminder to me that we can do amazing things with God's help. Well, I've gotta run... there's a little lady down the hall that just started crying in her crib. (It's 9:40 pm, and she's <u>still </u>awake!) <br />
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<br />Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-38828499974498099132012-04-19T20:54:00.001-07:002012-07-14T21:53:34.598-07:00Book Club: Kisses from KatieWant to read along? I've been waiting for this book -<i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/1451612060/ref=asc_df_14516120601983864?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=asn&creative=395093&creativeASIN=1451612060&hvpos=1o1&hvexid=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=2010622181839844895&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=" target="_blank">Kisses from Katie</a></i>- for a few months. What a sweet surprise to find it on the hold shelf at the library today. Usually I don't even try to read when the kids are awake. However, I couldn't wait till bedtime to start reading this one, so I read (somewhat successfully) in the midst of the kid chaos. This is a book that is going to challenge me, but in a good way. It's about a young lady who visited Uganda for a three week missions trip during her senior year in high school. After she graduated from high school, she returned to Uganda planning to stay for a year and teach at an orphanage. A year turned into years and now she's adopted over a dozen girls and continues to do what she can to help the people around her. If you have read it, or decide to read with me, please let me know! I had so many great responses (via comments, email, or in person) from the last book, <a href="http://amysmomthoughts.blogspot.com/2012/01/want-to-read-along.html" target="_blank"><i>Choosing to SEE</i> </a>by Mary Beth Chapman. I love hearing from you all and finding out your perspective on the books I'm reading. <br />
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<br /></div>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-16961143635726210332012-03-29T21:37:00.000-07:002012-03-29T21:37:56.486-07:00Boundaries With KidsI've read quite a few parenting books. None of them have been super helpful...I don't know why?? However, I recently checked out another parenting book with hopes that maybe this one would shed some light on the struggles of parenting a four year old & a two year old. Yep, I found the book! <u><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Kids-Healthy-Choices-Children/dp/0310243157/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_b" target="_blank">Boundaries With Kids</a></u> by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend. This one is a winner!! I'm seeing results as I implement the suggestions, hallelujah! The biggest one for me is giving consequences while showing empathy instead of anger...that has been very effective with my four year old son. You can read about showing empathy while giving consequences starting in chapter 4: <i>The Law of Sowing and Reapin</i>g. I think I'll need to read the book over quite a few times to let it all sink in because I need to change my perspective and how I approach certain situations with my kids. I wish this book had been required reading instead of some of the other books I had to read before we adopted. (Yep, they require that you read parenting books if you want to adopt!) What I love about this book is that the authors are Christian psychologists (they understand how people tick), they incorporate scripture into every chapter (so I know they are giving wise advice), and they give lots of real life examples that make sense (which keeps me interested and connected to the text). Of course, I'm also learning a lot about myself and areas where I need to establish better personal boundaries. I checked the book out at my local library and then decided to purchase a copy on Amazon for around ten dollars. <br />
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Happy St. Patricks Day to you. Did you do anything fun to celebrate? We didn't (not even green eggs!)...but all of us wore some shade of green today. I'll never forget the time I went to school (in the first grade) without green on my clothing and got pinched all day. I told my son about the silly tradition and he was quick to remind my husband to put on a green shirt before he left for work. :)</div>
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About the picture of the clover...I'd never believed that there was such a thing as a four-leafed clover. During elementary school recess, we'd sit in a giant soccer field and look for clover with four leaves. We never found any, therefore I assumed that it was a myth just like pots of gold at the end of the rainbow. Well, in July I happened to be sitting with my kiddos in a patch of clover. Remembering the long ago hunt for four-leafed clover, I looked down and the first thing I spotted was a real four-leafed clover! Although I don't believe in good luck, it was such a rare find that I decided to photograph it. It got me to wondering, how many other things in life have I written off as not real because I'd never seen living proof? </div>Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03199498861907632960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5208097256439707225.post-55126364554632695552012-03-08T20:54:00.002-08:002012-05-09T13:35:38.106-07:00Green Eggs and Ham<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
St. Patrick's Day is coming up on March 17th. Here's an idea to try with your kiddos- green eggs and ham. I've been on a health kick trying to sneak a fruit or veggie into every meal. Recently, I was making scrambled eggs and the thought popped into my head to add some mashed avocado to the eggs. My kids love avocados, so I thought they'd probably eat the eggs. It turned out to be a success, although the eggs needed some spices since the avocado is sort of bland. (Maybe pepper, salt, garlic, or onion powder?) I'm certain that part of their willingness to try the eggs was that we'd been listening to an audio version of the <i>Green Eggs and Ham </i>book by Dr. Seuss not long before. Once again, we brought a favorite book to life and had a fun time trying something new. </div>
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